Confession of Regret

I regret I have done so many terrible things in past, heard from my friend, for a while I thought its good that people realizes how terrible they are, what they have done in the past still bothers them and finally they thinks that they were not good.

But, wait a while, my mind started working in some other direction and a word struck to me was “REGRET” a cry over what we have done in the past or what we have not. The main reason for regret is all the time we suppose that we have made lots of wrong decisions. So what actually we are doing is that we just comparing our present scenario with our past. We keep doing this which slowly destroying our self esteem and then with no noise it further goes to destroy our self motivation, and finally we ruin our self just because of a simple miss handled regret.

To have not a regret is not a bad thing, it just keep you motivated, in reality which we are living is so full of negative charges that simply we can not see the brighter side, lets take an example of a flunked student, who is regretting over his performance, he have two choices then, have a regret and take it as a lesson, or another approach is to blame other factors, taking no lessons from past.

If we have any regret then we should take it as a chance to make it right, not just to cry over spill milk. 

To be continued . . . .